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REGRET & JUDGEMENT

REGRET

Always think before you say something because you never know who could be listening to you. Everybody regrets something. Nobody should have to regret anything though. That is a part of self loathing and guilt. If nobody made mistakes then nobody would regret anything. We can regret something in our life and still be happy with the choice that we made. Or we can regret it and hate ourselves for not making another decision that could have made a difference to the outcome. I believe if we dont regret anything we havent lived right.

JUDGEMENT

Why is it that other people feel it is necessary to judge every single person that they see. They critise how fat they are or what they happen to be wearing or what they look like or things they say. I dislike people who are fat themselves and they go and judge a fat person or when people who aren't very attractive go and judge another unattractive person. I hate if someone says what they feel, someone else will take their interpretation of what was said and exaggerate it a little more before informing other people that this person is crazy or rasist or sexist or anything else. Why cant people just keep their opinions of someone elses health, mental state, fashion sense or whatever else to themselves? Maybe these people are comfortable wearing loose hippy styled clothing with thongs and sunnies. Who cares if that woman isnt wearing a bra?? She doesnt have to! There is no rule that says she has to. Maybe they just feel complete wearing these things. Maybe girls who show their tummies and who wear short skirts feel good about themselves wearing these clothes. Maybe you should take a look in the mirror before you judge anybody. Nobody is perfect. If you are a person who gets abusive and hits people or emotionally damages people then you shouldnt call other people crazy or psycho or abusive before you look at what YOU are doing to the people around you. If you are one of those people who think that because that guy in the glasses walks really fast towards the computer lab at school he must be a nerd, then I just feel sorry for you because youre judging by appearance. Or that bunch of kids who plan their weddings and talk of how wonderful their husbands/wives are going to be and of how many children they will have and where they will live with however many pets? They are dreamers, so let them dream. Taking other people down because you dont like what they like is silly. Everybody is allowed to like something different. What about that group of people wearing black clothes and makeup who people call goths and they listen to "suicidal music" and Marilyn Manson? And that group of girls who all seem to have the same coloured hair and hairstyles who all wear the same thing? Maybe these girls just admire each other so much that they enjoy wearing the same things? I know that group of kids talking and laughing are really loud, but cant you accept that they are just having fun? And what about those outcasts sitting over there with angry looks on their faces who listen to death metal and who dont talk to anybody, but apparently you heard they said if anybody came near them they would kill you? Thats judging by rumors. Not everybody has to like the same music as you or the same clothes or hairstyles. Not every woman has to wear makeup or bras. You should let people feel happy in their own skin. Judgements and accusations just depress people. Do you really want to go through your life knowing that all you have achieved is making other people feel bad for not being exactly like you are? You cant truly judge somebody until you know them.

BrOkEn AnD sOuLlEsS

I showed you my face... but that was never enough for you, so I left you with my bleeding heart.